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Saturday, July 4, 2009

Poor is not reason

Last year, I have bumped into pair of mother and child in the Tiananmen Square, the son over 40 years old, pulls a tricycle, the mother is sitting in the vehicle. Their attire very earth, travel-worn, is incompatible with environment all around. I ask the man: “do you come from where?”The man speaks the sound to be very light, is actually bringing Man Man be proud of: “Shandong. I ride the tricycle to come! The mother said that for a lifetime the strongest wish has a look at Chairman Mao has lived the place, but in the family is too poor. Her 86 years old, did not come out, to fear that again shortly in the future will not have the opportunity, as soon as I clenched teeth mount the vehicle to come, has ridden entire 7 days.” I am startled, asked: “then which you do rest? What also eats?” “in my mother sleeping-car, I spread the mattress to rest nearby the vehicle, snoring a while comes the spirit. When near coming out, the wife has fried 80 cakes, but can also eat.” Ms. a face is smiling satisfiedly, the one who sits as if is luxurious Lincoln. my eye is somewhat fuzzy. We often in excuse pouch shy, cannot be filial to the utmost for the parents. Saw this to the mother and child, I only then discovered: Poor never is the reason.

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Tuesday, June 30, 2009

Flowered and leaf's love

Snow everywhere dances in the air, the mountain range which is continuous is extending in the snow world to the distant place. All did not have probably terminus, strikes the eye is a color. “the wind, the snow has been too big.”Plum sound weak, looks at the rumor. the wind looks that the petite plum, the ache is at heart incomparable, plum's respite clear may hear, he knew Mei Lei, might, in this heavy snow fluttered on the mountain where had the place which might rest? “the plum, you have been tired, I hug you to walk.”The wind lays down the plum the hand, does not allow her to speak, all of a sudden hugs her. “lays down me to be good? You were also tired. Lays down me.” “I am not tired, we must pass through this mountain as soon as possible. Plum.” the plum's tear silent falls down, the wind bosom is warm, but also has that and jumps equally the violent heart, has the wind man's breath to let her dizziness. the big wind embraces the petite plum to proceed, although in flying snow world, but plum's delicate fragrance still sneaked in his nose to sneak in him at heart.

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Friday, May 29, 2009

The best of a blessing

A friend in telephones after me, the ending always could not forget to say one: Eats many, lives happily most important. A little looks like in the family old person. the initial feeling is some earth, moreover somewhat funny, but afterward actually felt that is really one most primitive the most eternal blessing. can when is living open-minded somewhat, does not regard the fame and fortune, everything allows nature to take its course, regardless of which angle actually said from, already was the very high boundary. adult majority many worrying matters, tremendous weight, layer on layer pressure. Therefore the overwhelming majority does not want, or does not dare to say the real soul talk. If you asked that their true hope obtains anything at heart, perhaps the low key some will say, world peace, the family will be happy, health; Makes widely known some, probably is Cheng Li, rich and so on. Will be very possibly few some people to speak without reservation said that what oneself longed for truly will be enjoys joyfully, loving couples. Perhaps is the society always does not permit this kind of luxury, because perhaps most people cannot achieve. it is a pity, was not willing really to say credible. The desire is not very grand, really. many people are broken to the world the life, battle collapse the volume crack, must takes one point victory and defeat, lies down in pairs in the end with the match in the coffin, did not know whether there is meantime straightens out awakens, realizes limitedly before death has wasted the too much time. a cup of blue spiral spring, the delicate fragrance is plain, is joined to one to remember past times the song, outside the window has the tangled up infant drizzle not certainly, as if passes through the time tunnel, returned to many years ago. Did not use at that time in the society mixes, stupid was stupid, how many were also pure. Already was today tattered and torn, also cannot go back again. from not has oversized rich expensive greatly, certainly also the disqualification said that anything gives up affectation. is only finally clear, looked that resembles small, the real plain desire, is unexpectedly actually most difficult to realize. “eats many, lives happily most important”. Yes, this forever is a happiest blessing.

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Word Qian-Jun

I have heard of such a true story: One winter, a man named Ling-yun frame where it began to snow a rare, almost all沟沟坎坎夷to the ground. Just then, a 3-year-old mute child suddenly had a disease, such as a high fever burned, For Tan, unconscious for three days and nights, his anxious parents bad.
In the village to go to the doctor after a month away, shaking his head, his probing of his wife, his father said: "That ... ... only to read the county hospital to see?"
The villagers to come together to visit the sights will be surprised by his face. Davis aircraft from the cloud to the county seat, at least more than 100 miles to go, of which more than 60 years is unusually steep mountain path, ordinary people are the sight of them walking in bad weather so down, no one think it is a strange thing, get not even a family of three have lost life.
However, after listening to the wife her husband's case, almost all of a sudden look of despair and show a bright, rapidly unconscious with a blanket around the child, hold up往门口went on. Easily pull the father of the young have a shovel,紧紧地跟behind.
What folks have to say, get out of a Road in silence, they watched the snow all over the sky扑进1. Then, they saw the father of the young bear out walking a few steps ahead, with shovel in knee-deep snow shovel a way to allow his wife when the local move forward steadily.
I do not know who is the first带了个, we look up the boom to go up, grabbed a shovel in his hands, take turns in front to clear the way, has been escorted to the foot of the mountain 60 miles away.
Then, her husband borrowed a cart, pushing his wife and children, night rush to the county.
When they reach the county seat, is already the next day at noon. At this time, the children cold species, even the heart has gone, the county hospital to the doctor very sorry to tell them: "too late for the children ... ... to find a good place for you!"
Her husband for a long while silent, move one's lips to move one's lips stammered stammered his wife said: "By this step we had ... ... ... ... go ... to send their children ..."
Woodenly wife looked as if by electric shock in general,一抖fiercely: "No! I do not lose! She is still alive, I want to go home with her ... ..."
No matter how people tried stubborn mother always bite it a go, the husband had no choice but to sigh and pushed his wife and children play, difficult to set foot on the journey home.
Snow continues to the next, between heaven and earth was chaos, it seems to "hit it on a small husband and wife completely submerged. Walked, the mother sat on the cart simply衣襟untie their child in his arms tightly, as if to use their body temperature warm the child will be cold. Every moment, like she must be called the soul of the film roll arms, like a call balderdash moment: "Good baby, mom to take you home ... ..." My husband walked mechanically, the turbulent flow of tears from his eyes, In the face of the ice formed long.
"Or, you cry out loud. So that was good about them more." Said the husband.
His wife shook her head.哭不出to her voice.
I do not know how long gone, taking the number of roads, dark and clear, big, small snow, and all of a sudden, bang wife cart exclaimed: "He Dad, look, she moved, she lived! "
Her husband ran a箭步will get together with his wife and children in his arms. Sure enough, the child's little hand stiffness slowly stretch out, like to be struggling to grasp what, then, our eyes will be open to the open, quietly stare at the mother's face.
"Mother!" A child's lips move, gently out of a ground-breaking voice.
头一歪poor mother, like a paralysis of the slurry will, happiness and died in her husband's arms.
Until now, this child is still only one word is called, that is - "Mom!"
This may be the weight of a word, than all the world's languages should be re ... ...

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Tuesday, January 27, 2009

Do you know what I am using?

I am using a second-hand black berry 7100v, and opera mini, Chinese is clever indeed, they can copy others' so quikly! I am shame of this!!

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Monday, January 26, 2009

Go to my uncle's house

Today , in the old rules, Chinese should go to the relatives to visit their family .

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Sunday, January 25, 2009

So noisy outside!

The people are very exited today, the last day of chinese year.celebrate it now !

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Saturday, January 24, 2009

Happy new year, my friends!

The Chinese who went abroad, happy new year to you! Do you miss your home now? I will be with you tonight!CCTV

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Happy new year, my friends!

The Chinese who went abroad, happy new year to you! Do you miss your home now? I will be with you tonight!CCTV

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Wednesday, January 21, 2009

Clened my room today

Spring festval is coming, this is China's new year , and it is a very important festerval in China .we will celebrate it several days later.

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Friday, November 14, 2008

做好团队工作

明天我们有一次模拟的商务谈判,说实话我自身不是很紧张,只是觉得有些滑稽,我很重视练习,但是我不得不说我不能理解个人表现问题,作为以团队总重要的是团结和服从。每一个人你的支配欲都那么的强烈,这让我很难做出判断,我知道每个人都很想出色的完成任务,只是在表现上太过勉强。而我也有责任,即便是演习的执行者却不能很好的表达自己,甚至有些羞赧,而且对于调节团队的关系问题上没有明确自己的观点,事实上我觉得在班级内部搞活动都是这样的,不会有谁愿意喜欢被支配,但是合作意识却是那么的重要,我不知道该怎么告诉他们掌握成败的除了自己还有别人。我也不能这样做,每个队员对工作的负责和认真态度是我不能挑剔的,甚至是我欠缺的,我喜欢临场发挥,但我知道如果是现实,即便手里有多少资料都不能让自己安心的,这就是现实和学校的差别,也是模拟和实战的不同啊,不过,无论未来要碰见什么样的情况,一定要把团队工作做好,集体的工作,分散可能节省时间,但是团结在一起却可能改变整个事件!

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Thursday, November 13, 2008

浅谈个人修养

很小的时候,家里就有很多规矩,吃饭到说话,到出访,我那时是因为害怕父母的打骂,所以就很听话的做着学着,自从除外求学后才发现这是对我多么大的教育,一个人无论多么饱读诗书,但是个人修养却是从小就养成的,只是后来叛逆,也有了自己的羞涩和想法,所以没能纠正站姿,幸好碰见老公,他和我的家人是我生命中最珍贵的最应该感激的人,他们教会了我很多做人做事我不做和必须知道的事情,这是我的幸运,我不相信那些把道德修养放在嘴边到处炫耀说为的人,自诩永远不能相信,即便他是真的,也已经失去了为自己辩解和维护的资格,这让我不禁想到了舌头的作用,很是美好的东西却是制造麻烦和最恶毒的事物的祸根没可是人又不能缺少它,所以就应该把自治放在心里,修养应该是从舌头开始的,自修比修他人要值得尊重

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Sunday, November 9, 2008

我不是才女

一直以为自己是很有才华的,觉得任何事情都难不住我,尤其是语言和交流上,但是今天的普通话考试让我发现自己不是完人,而且是一个普通的人,当下次有人这样夸我的时候,我不得不提防他的意图,我相信那是一种讽刺或是一种麻木,我必须自己认清自己,不能再自以为是下去,我是有缺陷的,如果说有天赋那么锻炼时必须的,我不能在告诉自己临场发挥,也我不能相信别人说的这句话,勤奋出真知是一句至理名言,没有做充分的准备就想靠这种临场发挥,就是投机,就是在赌自己的运气,实在和自己开玩笑,完美是接口,当我们在追求完美的时候实际上已经在为自己的失败埋下了理由和退路,真正的完美是实力和实践证明的,不是用嘴说的,也不是单纯凭运气的,我不再相信那些所谓的运气,真正的运气和机会是至给有准备的人的,除了自然的得失变化,自身的准备是永远不能疏忽的,要看和观察,而不是耍小聪明,要用心去留意去记忆,去准备,才有可能胜利,“知己知彼”,“骄兵必败”。自以为是是人最大的致命缺点,自负和自卑都是在掩饰自己,真正的自信是源自内心的毫无畏惧的心理,因为是真的有能力,是真的的智者!

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最笨的人

最笨的人就是他不知道自己到底是不是聪明,但是他能够为别人想到很多事情,也就是说他最擅长的事情就是换位思考。这种人很悲哀,因为当别人欺负他时他更多的可能不会去反抗,而是觉得对方也是有原因的,会想要是换成是自己会不会也是这样的,这样的人简直是很可恶的,因为他不能很好的实现自己的价值,总在实现别人的利益,尤其是不能为自己多考虑,对不起自己其次,最对不起他的家人,父母养了自己一会,那能想到是出来被欺负的:这样的人对不起上帝造人时赋予自己的权利,只会履行义务的人不懂的保护自己的权利,要是女孩子还好,最起码可以有个护花使者在身边,不至于被骗到被卖还帮人数钱的地步,但是要是个男同志可真的就惨了,结果和可能的情况不必多说,最起码他会把他女朋友给气死,最可恶的是别人把他女朋友卖了还可能帮人家数钱,谁遇到谁不疯呢,所以做人千万不要一味的坚守道德的原则问心无愧只最好的了,不要忘了人都是自私的,别人都在建筑自己的自私的房子,为什么你还要把自己关在心外呢,我不相信真的有人可以做到这么笨,只是太害怕别人的评价,其实完全根本不用在意别人在做什么评价,因为任何人都没有资格去评别人自私或是其他的,因为在我们身上有着同样的通病,谁也不高贵,谁也不比谁高尚,越喜欢挑剔别人的,其实他自己就是这样的,所以好好做自己,如果你同样想要自私,但又放不下别人的看法要么就选择永远做个圣人,要么就放弃做个笨蛋!

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Wednesday, November 5, 2008

The joy of reading book

I love reading any time,I can't imagine if no books how I will change,I get much information and knowledge from the book,I think I love looks irioneted from my sisiter's hobby,she loves reading very much and she knows many about history and arts,I was so admirable to her that I want to be an artist ,so now I am thankful to my sister because she let me feel the power of the culture and the value of the knowlege.
Wishes to my family,wishes tomy sister.

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It's happy to love

It's a nice day today,suddenly I find I will think anout many things and have smart thoughts in this day,maybe it make me clear anylyse myself and the future.I don't know how to love in the past,I think we should be together everyday and at fact I was willing to do like that,at that moment I love him ,but sometimes I think I was losing,now I love him much more than ever,and more happy more than ever too,because I find when I pay attention to us I can seek myself,I still care for his life,even I will think any way to solve his problem,that makes me happy and intersted in my life,I am aware that it's love ,real love,free and easy love.
At fact,love is very simple thing,sometimes we need to make some concession,and don't ask too much each other,because lover is not the God,maybe we always hope the love is the same with the TV played,but is't not possible,lover should be loved,not be asked.we are all equal to each other,and love to each other equally.

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The reason I love automn

I love fall so much that when I think of it I will be happy.I come from countryside and my families have some land in my hometown,I remebered the most happy day is the fall ,because it's a harvest day and we can gain crop which make us have a good life in winter and have some money to lay in the bank which can be used on investment next year.The other reason I love it because it's weather.In fall,I always feel happy and loyal,the sky looks like washed,and no cloud ,light wind,warm day and so on,I don't know wheather it only belongs to my hometown,but when I travelled a place I will choose the fall view and research the information on fall,I like the clear blue day,it makes my heart quiet,if any chance I am willing to live the place where the season is all fall.

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Thursday, October 30, 2008

How to understand what is culture

There are some foreigners in my colleage,and I don't know how to understand the communication with the culture,at fact,I want to understand the culture and wish to know more about the foreign,but it's in China,if you are closed to them you will find you are called by others and there are many gossip about you,maybe sometimes it's my thought,that's my wrong thought,however everyday we can see many chinese students walk with the foreigners an d never care about others' words,maybe if you want to be successful you indeed need to change your common sence,no one can stop you learning knowlege,and the how-know you need to get from the exprienced,you should avoid to make yourself in other's life,you are you ,and no one has right to change you or arrange your time for you.

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Wednesday, October 29, 2008

Eggplant

When I leared the Enlish name of these vegetables and fruit,I saw the "eggplant",then I was laughing,my friend asked me,"Hi,guy,what about you?"I thought she must regard me as a mad,so I told her,"En,I have a little confused about the name of "eggplant",or say I really want to go to America,because I find thera are many things I don't know,I don't know why the will call "Qiezi" to eggplant,I could not imagine whether the eggplant doesn't like our Qiezi."
At fact I like to study the culture of every country,in face of the graduate,I find more and more know how I don't know,I start to believe that adage:learn and old.Anything you couldn't learn out of your all time.

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Monday, October 27, 2008

Enlish songs

Suddenly I fall in Love to the Enlish songs,maybe the culture attracts me and make me feel happy ,calm...I don't know whether I should how to selcet.maybe I have to give up doing something,the future I need to consider what will be suit to me,the job and the place,the love and the family,please give me some help,don't let me feel confused.I hope you are happy and safe,I hope however I wll make a desicion,you will support me!

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