rid unilateralism out of love

 

everybody whether you are in love or not now should know that unilateralism is the worst rival of love.

 

love is an affair of both. if you are not prepared to share your life with another then do not get into love.

 

four rules should be remembered in love

 

they are considerate, consultative, encouraging and tolerant.

 

to be considerate you'd better remember you are not alone, and everything you do have something to do with your parterner

 

to be consultative you'd better consult your parterner when you decide to do somethings especially which have effect on your parterner

 

to be encouraging refers that you can't insult your parterner with his uselessness but always encourage him/her do his/her best in his/her career. maybe it is difficult to hold on. maybe you see yourself degraded to marry such a useless guy, then you can leave him/her immmediately, not to insult him/her. and he/she will be grateful for your kindness

 

to be tolerant means that you can't find fault with your parterner, or even bother him with his/her fault too much. you can criticise him/her, but with honest pls. it is your attitude that decide. he may offend you in some way that you can't bear, but do remember that it does not means you can take his wrong doings as your beat weapon. this kind weapon is poison to your love.

 

anyway unilateralism is not welcomed in from diplomacy to interpersonal relations, including love. remember this you will certainly be happy in the future.

 

so rid unilateralism out your love.