Alone is also a capacity

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The exchanges are often seen as a capability, while ignoring the solitude is also a capability, and in a sense is more important than the exchange of a capacity. Conversely, of course, Bushan Communication is a regret that intolerance is never lonely is not a very serious flaw. 

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Alone is also a kind of ability, not any time any person can have. Has that ability does not mean that no longer feel lonely, but Anyu lonely and make it productive. In loneliness in the three states. First, Huang Huang unrest, Mangwutouxu, Pepsi unmotivated, bent on escape loneliness. The second is gradually accustomed to the lonely, under the heart to establish a structured life, with reading, writing or other services to the expulsion lonely. The third is a poetic loneliness itself into the soil, creating an opportunity, induced on the existence of life, the profound self-reflection and experience. 

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Solitude is a beautiful moment in the life and a beautiful experience, though some lonely, lonely, but in a substantial. Growth alone is the soul of the necessary space, in solitude, we affairs from others and extricate out and return to their own. This time, we face ourselves and God alone, beginning with their souls and the universe and the mysterious power of dialogue. All the strict sense of the soul are living in solitude at the start. And others to talk about this ancient said, Yinjingjudian, it is to chat and discussion; only themselves immersed in ages masters of the masterpiece, will have a genuine spiritual sentiment. Youshanwanshui and others together, it was just tourism; only their own Cangmang the face of the mountains and the sea, will really feel and nature of communication. 

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From a psychological point of view, who needs alone, is to carry out the internal integration. The so-called integration is to put the experience of the new internal memory in a proper position. Only after this process of integration, the impression can only be imported by the self-digestion, can also become a self-independence and growth in both systems. Therefore, whether alone capability, related to a person can really form a relatively self-contained inner world, which will in turn affect his relations with the outside world. 

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Determine how a person is there of his "self"? «Have a reliable test method is to see he can not alone. When you own a Daizhuo, you feel bored Lai 100, unbearable it, or feel a quiet, enrich and meet » 

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For love and solitude of a person's character has nothing to do, the same people who love alone may be a lively character, like friends, no matter how he is happy to exchange with others, he alone is always necessary in life. In his view, a lack of contacts between the life course is a defect, a lack of living alone, it is a disaster of the. 

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No one can put up with the absolute loneliness. However, absolutely can not tolerate people who are lonely soul emptiness of a person. There are some people in this, they fear most is the solitude, so that they and their stay a while for them it is a form of torture. As long as idle down, they must find places for entertainment. Their days on the surface flies very busy, in fact extremely empty their hearts. They are doing everything in order to avoid face-to-face to see their own ways. I can only have one explanation is that even they themselves feel that their own poor, so poor and their stay with the top meaningless, and boring pastime is much more interesting than this. As a result they become more and more poor, more and not their own, forming a vicious cycle.