Do you happy?

Many non-United States who lived in the United States after a period of time, subject to the impact of culture here, it is inevitable in the work style of doing things and treat people the way to change. In the United States for the better in social and cultural life, I also note that their unknowingly already contaminated with the United States of certain social interaction and thinking patterns, some of which have in-depth my heart, while others are only limited to superficial To imitate. However, in all of American culture, I can not study or how to imitate, that is to do anything else "in which the music" attitude, with the Americans saying that "have fun" (Have fun). 

Although I have many values: the Americans did not agree, but the Americans have tried anything on "have fun" attitude and envy. Said here "have fun", not the kind of narrow, the kind of play out on the "fun" (fun), but both leisure and play activities, or decent rigorous study or race, the Americans seem to have Can enjoy it as much as possible. 

I would go to the scene from time to time to watch the NBA game, the match will be the end of the regular reporters to interview players, I found that the majority of the players in the city said that similar remarks like "We just went out there and had fun!" (We are only out Play only) such words. Remember to look at the 2004 Athens Olympic Games television, many participating in various competitions both in the United States players before or after the interview, are almost the same calibre and that they are to "have fun" of. These people is incredible, the Olympic Games this tension there is a high-pressure thing, but also as a surprise "fun", if I have difficulty in breathing, Zhimao cold sweat, heart attack, the only hope that the game ended quickly win quickly, Where have any fun at all! 

Cardiac function is not only the strong can be a small number of Americans "have fun", even ordinary people can be the same in any matter, even if we think that is some fun with eight in the Ganzi Dabu Zhao things "have fun". I have noticed that Americans between the friends greeting each other to chat, when one talked about his work or participate in certain matters, another person will usually ask "Did you have fun?" (You Have fun? » ). "Have fun" this matter in daily life everywhere. 

I remember reading of graduate students in Philadelphia have a design class, I made a bunch of no help to design the model, thinking that surely will be instructors Chouma meal, Unexpectedly, he saw the model I only asked me "Did you have fun? ". I had to Leng, nodded, because I do model is very pleased to do so, the teacher's response was, "Good! As long as you had fun." (Very good, happy as long as you do) in Seattle Office work, each received a new design task, even if I think some of the design of extremely dull, but in the new composition of the team, my colleagues have always said: "We are going to have a lot of fun! "(We have a lot of the music); repair my last semester of a class, the teacher sent us Qimo Kao said that" I want you to have fun with this. "(I hope you happy in the test) . 

Habits of the many things have reservations or moderate attitude, I contacted the beginning of this phenomenon, the very thought that the Americans leave, like to pretend that anything very interesting, the Americans always "fun" to describe the extent of any Things, the total did not agree. However, their understanding of the deep, the more that it is really deeply rooted in the hearts of Americans the values that Americans really do believe that anything which "have fun", but this in no way representative of non-doing serious play, or play Mentality of doing things, but on behalf of "the enjoyment of the process," the attitude to do anything. Therefore, even if the game is tight, players can also compete to enjoy the way to competet. On the other hand, have this attitude, even the most boring work, can inspire people seriously dedicated attitude, fun. 

Why are we always so nerve tension » Why do we not know how to "have fun"? Maybe it is because we do anything, fulfill their obligations perfunctory elements of the greater proportion, never reached the target weight in the process, we do not know how to enjoy the process, because the goal is too important, therefore overlooked in the process of their own feelings . Therefore, we are studying to enter good schools, good schools to read to find a good job, finding a good job is to make more money, in order to earn more money under the Ban Beizai a good life, What about this last » Hard all their lives only in order to achieve short-term goal, but not at a little more time to celebrate life. 

U.S. immigrants living for many years, I see many, many times in the cleaners, porters or drivers of such ordinary people will suffer the sky's the work of the Americans, with a smile, enjoy it and responsible work. I remember the year before work happily when I listen to the natives complained that the Americans, "the most important work is' have fun ', if they can not' have fun ', why do you complain to the side, while also continue to do so ? "