Self-esteem and frustration of sex

In the treatment of this often encountered some people, they do not have a clear organic problem, but also failed to highlight the psychological barrier, but they did in the context of repeated setbacks. A detailed analysis can be found, they are likely to have some character flaws, as a person's sexuality can be a significant impact on their personality, their organic integration and coordination of cross-linked, if human behavior is normal, if the imbalance on Have abnormal behavior. For example, lower self-esteem is one of the most frequently asked questions. Strong sense of self-esteem of people having sex in more than low self-esteem outgoing, more confident, more aggressive, more aware of their requirements and sexual feelings. Because of his personality, identity, taste more confident and self-esteem, often with his sexual partners to build a more harmonious and good relations. Low self-esteem for those who do not value their own proud, not proud of her body, showing one of them is not willing partner in the face of changing unless it has closed its lights, they will not partner in the nude before. The strong sense of self-respect have the courage to express his partner, as long as they are willing to concentrate input from the search for their feelings, their sexual behavior indicates that they are confident that this will enhance their feelings of satisfaction and pleasure. Self-esteem is also to give them the freedom to recognize and appreciate each other's sexual behavior and performance. When a husband has a strong sense of self-esteem, his wife would feel very comfortable with him, safe, reliable, she can freely express their own needs, be able to gradually build the same as her husband's sexual feelings and feel better. In such a competition not between husband and wife separately with the feeling, because they will have more knowledge about sex, they rarely encountered so many problems. On the other hand, low self-esteem of those who are less able to imagine themselves, there is no confidence, always a self-made problems. He often shy, timid, afraid to take the initiative to launch activities, the total appears to be so passive. He rarely in sexual activities for their own sake of the feelings and needs, always needs a partner in the first place. In order to focus on partners to provide fun, he's likely to disappear or erection problems experienced premature ejaculation. One reason is that he did not put himself in a position of equal importance. He would have sex from time to time companion asked: "Do you feel better?" Or "Is that it?", And constantly check whether they allow the other party or to be satisfied with the recognition of each other. For example, a man always living in the success of his father and brother's shadow, but his wife is so self-confident and assertive. In order to please his father, brother, wife and even children, all his attention on other people, a very serious inferiority complex. Middle-aged, he found himself more and more difficult to erection. Because of his career, when the big shots, then left early to enjoy the beginning of the Qing Fu. However, he did not expect to lose once the work force and support a complex domestic activities, his growing depression, impotence is becoming more serious. Some men also favor an early age by parents of over-protection, lack of self-esteem and sense of independence, the results are always reluctant to deal with the opposite sex, avoiding all possible contact and emotional development, all parents have to wait for him to decide. Although they may be successful in their studies, but in the love life has always balked. In this case, they tend to look for a spouse when Qudao a strong and assertive women, as parents is a continuation of the protection of divine duty. They can also become a disease of pedophilia, Yin Lu's disease, patients with peep because they did not dare to openly pursue sexual partners, so the children, especially tame, looking for targets in the weak or abnormal to find ways of Meet. Self-esteem of female sexual behavior is also similar. Strong sense of self-esteem of women easily and smoothly gone through their process of development, their own personality for all aspects of proud of her body to be proud of the image. They know their own needs and how they can have a clear sense of their own and to adjust their sexual relations, loyalty and frankly express their sexual feelings. As the women in the traditional education received is how to be a good wife and good mother, as mothers How, how to obey her husband's needs, so they are prone to inferiority complex. They think that their marriage is the primary responsibility for her husband when she needs to fulfill their duties, to please her husband, she is only providing services but not the obligation to fully meet the needs of their own power. As a result they rarely own sexual awakening of consciousness and feelings, even in the event of pretending to orgasm in order to meet the psychological needs of her husband. Over time, they have their own lack of feeling dissatisfied, that there is anything wrong with their own sure. Therefore, their marriage will not end well, because her husband low sexual desire and even sexual aversion abandoned her away. Due to the lack of personal development, as is always the strong inferiority complex, due to the lack of independence and self-protection awareness, and some women will be too much of the man's request, for example, exchanges in the near future they all have their own dedicated to each other, for fear that the other party does not She would be happy to go away. Some of the results of women playing men take advantage of it, will soon start to abandon them, when these women are involved in the "chastity anxiety", that he is the least clean the woman, from fear of making friends, and tears to wash day; Or give up on themselves onto the wrong road. The women in the selection of a spouse is often easier in the social and economic status, cultural level in the not as good as their own, they will over-protect each other, forgive each other all the moves, even disloyal or ill-treatment. They are always behind the times wearing the dress, not even dare to speak loud, obsequious, and sometimes even friends can not understand how they will look into this. This seems to be very difficult for the simple concept of the shackles of tradition to explain, the key is to make chong in the inferiority complex. Solution is to raise awareness of their independence and raise self-esteem, and can not be as weak as LIU Hui-fang to the end of his life. In addition to the problems of inferiority influence a person's career achievements, but also affect the development of her emotional and sexual feelings and sexual satisfaction, because a person's sexual performance and sexual enjoyment depends largely on the ability of his self-esteem and self-confidence. Therefore, the inferiority of women would affect the sexual behavior of men is even more serious impact. It is widely believe that the lack of a sound relationship between the people would feel inferior, and the inferiority of those who have difficulty in relations to meet the sexual experience. Inferiority of men and women in the face of frustration when the same is fragile, especially men, because they attach more importance to the success of the establishment of sexual relations, and due to the reluctance of women in the casual acceptance on the basis of sex, so they will be more Number of cases to choose abstinence to prevent frustration. The majority of sexual attraction is built on the basis of self-confidence in the animal kingdom is the ability to Maria who will king. It should be noted that appearance is often more than one person's courage and achievements into a leading role in marriage is often subject to competition, bluff and rhetoric, rather than actual battle. To show off, modified dress, sang along and the other to improve their competitiveness means Conjoint would definitely undermine the process itself. In humans, these acts become unconscious, but in any case is very influential. Pace, body, style and tone is often conveyed a person's interest, desire, self-confidence and belief. In sexual relations, if one of their own sexual identity is a lack of confidence that he can not fully relax and to ensure an enhanced level of the other side of the meet. In order to achieve genuine satisfaction with sexual relationships, a person must first make love in the process of self-love to do before they can love others. If a person is feeling or the Bu Keai not worthy of love, then he would not easily accept other people's love, and play down their own sexual relations can provide the value of all efforts. In this way, from love to build relationships with each other to attract the initial stage of self-respect at all times to ensure the success of the play. For example, over a 40-year-old divorced man, he can always be found quickly to the satisfaction of a woman, they always Yongronghuagui, sexy and intelligent man. He always with a new girlfriend Xiaguan Zi, the dance hall to see his elegant decoration of the room, but every time a few dating back to the end, and then again to pursue a new President. Why did not he get down to the selection of a common life? Because he was dating back after a few do not know what to do next, he felt that the other side have seen him, he has not a bit of confidence to continue to talk about it. Low self-esteem of those who are interested may not be lower than on the strong self-esteem, their sexual interest is to reduce the serious state of depression symptoms more than a common. Low self-esteem are often in a state of depression, so many of them will show low sexual desire. Although in a highly competitive modern society, low self-esteem is a very common phenomenon, but fortunately they are not always so serious. They generally will not be affective disorder or severe obstacle to the autonomic nervous system (such as insomnia, poor appetite, weight loss and gastrointestinal disorders), their most basic desires have not disappeared. On the other hand, has a moderate loss of self-esteem of patients will indulge in sexual activity, sexual partners from where they can not be given access to their own values and confirmed. The desire to reduce the gender gap not only due to the man in the performance of functions under greater pressure and easy to lose interest in sex. Lower self-esteem of the people in the easy issues to take a laissez-faire attitude toward it? Most people agree that this is the point of view, low self-esteem and are easy to happen to others casual confusion of sexual relations. This is not only seen in women, also found in men. In particular, are extremely low self-esteem, or being refused, it may be early symptoms of mental illness, such as mania, depression or hysteria in patients with sexual promiscuity can be used to obtain a temporary, and the feeling of health, of course, this total It is short-lived, the truth will always white. Investigation showed that premature sexual intercourse took place in the future of women in the life of the show will be over-active, more sexual partners, drug addicts easy, easy-to-use tools or pornographic materials to enhance their sex life. On their own evaluation of the quality of marriage is the lowest. On the other hand, and brought chaos to their satisfaction, but not the more serious frustration. In an opinion poll showed that the occurrence of the affair is not the main cause of low self-esteem, about 70% of people report sexual frustration, 50% from the curious, 40% as a means of retaliation, 20% is devoted to seek affair. These are all conscious of the motives, and unconscious motives, such as the masculine and feminine confirmed. Low self-esteem is often not one of the motives, because it comes from pent-up conflict. Some people think that love affair is not caused by a common cause, and the troubles and the desire to enhance self-esteem is the main motive. Affair brought about by the psychological rewards that it brings much more than physical pleasure, especially wants to update the level of feeling that to regain their youth, a strong awareness of the value of love and rediscover the kind of poetic. Contemporary psychiatrist to recognize sexual fantasies contribute to the adoption of a new experience and a rich diversity of human life, so it can be seen as a kind of creative, healthy spirit of the act rather than a defense mechanism or means of compensation. Often because of low self-esteem and depression tend to reduce sexual fantasies, on the contrary strong sense of self-esteem would make greater use of sexual fantasies as a means of arousal. Women easy because the size of the breast, asymmetry, shape and feel inferior, such as the United States each year 120,000 women in a variety of breast surgery, orthopedics As for the bra, and wear the traditional measures do not increase breast surgery for women is even more of the countless . Although the publicity has been of the female clitoris to meet the role and size of the penis to the female sexual satisfaction is not a determining factor, but there are still many men feel that their penis size inferiority complex. In particular the lack of sex education in China, the size of the penis caused by the widespread anxiety too, which make them feel inferior, some people did not even dare to love or marriage. The only man so gratifying that in normal times the size of the penis is hidden, and only when sexual stimulation erection, and after the erection of the penis size of the difference will be less significant; women is not breast always open to show its size. However, with the increase in sexual experience and knowledge widely, so that modern women than men appears to be a few decades ago, more vulnerable, adolescent sense of insecurity in many easily out-dated back to life a time. Of interest, concern and friendship can bring to us and to meet the concerns, but they are all point to another person, then love is its own experience of love is a key part. Fell in love the man focused on his partner, but he felt a change, all he has strengthened the feeling that he's a better life, he dared to dream, it has become a poet. Only they have the confidence of the people vulnerable to other people with the basic ability to make a commitment, or their feelings will not make consistent efforts to steadily develop. Love will take a strong self-awareness and confidence in order to be able to provide the reward of love. Finally, the survey also showed that both men and women in the sex life of the frustration felt when they intentionally or unintentionally, through non-sexual achievements to enhance their self-respect and compensation, such as access to career success or a good mother as a The impetus for self-esteem. Investigation has showed that the United States for divorce in 80% of men, women, divorce, 90% after the divorce that they work to strengthen the dedication, despite the physical and psychological trauma brought about by divorce, but also to provide these people with more time and energy Enter the workforce, the need to reduce the time to stay at home, work mobility will be stronger.