Eyes you need to see clear

I always think maybe we can meet the people who understand and listen to you,but at fact others also need us to do the same thing,anything you do is mutural benifit to each one.I think we should grow up early and see clearly to the around people,except your closest relatives,when you can't exactualy understand one you need to pay more attention or you can do nothing ,because you can choose to give up the communication,remeber,don't be confused by others' appreciation,thus you will lose yourself,even lose important things you think.