Intimate understanding of men cycle

en like "Rubber Band." Rubber Band will be extended, as long as no more than elastic limit, a Songshou, and will bounce back out again - to understanding man's "close cycle", this is a perfect analogy. Men "close cycle" process is: close - alienation - close. 

Women are often surprised to find that, even men love her, will periodically choose "to avoid." 

After this, he only woman closer. This is the result of man's instinct. He produced from time to time to avoid the impulse, not a decision, not deliberate choice. It is only incidental "emotional event." Men's escape, not his fault, nor is the woman's fault! It is affiliated with a natural cycle or cycle. 

Even men love women, will periodically choose "to avoid." After this, he only woman closer. 

Men's alienation and evasion, so that women often misleading. For women, a study of the escape, usually due to the following conditions: you do not trust men, that men do not understand your feelings, you hurt by the men, afraid of being hurt again, the men do wrong, you extremely disappointed . 

There is no doubt that men also due to the same reason alienated women, the problem is: Even if you have normal performance, impeccable, he may also be an attempt to evade. The typical situation is common: At first, followed by his love for you, you have added to her confidence. Suddenly, men seem irritability, Liushenwuzhu. He began to alienate you - at this time, the Rubber Band is longer! He does not want to chat with you, even Bulibucai. After a period of time, he did not resume normal, affectionate with you again - this time, Rubber Band automatically rebound back! 

The reason why men escape, is to meet the "alone" and "reflect" the needs. As Rubber Band, the first fully extended out, blink of an eye, will suddenly rebound back, and similarly, some time after the escape, the men will be strongly desire love, nostalgia intimate feeling! He's hearts, have a greater passion and impulse He woman to give him more love. He would like once again to be dreamed of love. At this point, the woman he is more intimate, no unfamiliar feeling, but also alienated by the need to close and re-familiar with the "transitional period." 

Understanding of men "close cycle", can two people feeling even more profound, more consolidation. However, this cycle may also be misunderstood as a woman, unnecessary distress. May wish to look at an example -- 

Queen Mary, anxiety, anguish, anger. She and her boyfriend Jeff dating for six months, all as smooth, romantic and beautiful, there is no indication that Jeff will be a sudden change of attitude. One day, Mary found that, I do not know why, Jeff became emotionally distant, like for a person, she left her Hen Buneng like! Mary said to me: "one minute ago, he also told me that Chi Qing, one minute, even if he does not want to have said to me and I want a way to try to let him change his mind,却使situation worse. He did Boost as strangers, I do not know, what I actually wrong »Do I become a terrible Mody« I Yaomoguiguai? «Otherwise, how could he do for no reason at all to alienate I» " 

Mary felt that her own is certainly a problem, that makes Jeff increasingly cold, more and more alienated. Women can easily have a similar psychological, that their poor performance, which leads to the emergence of unfavorable situation, and thus earned, the Queen Mary was the case. She wants Jeff restore "status quo" and allow love to blossom, the results may be more close to her Jeff, Jeff is the more alienated her. 

I attended the seminar chaired by Mary before Huangrandawu, understand the truth. She relaxed and happy mood, her anxiety and confusion enveloping his vanish. She no longer blame ourselves, because she realized that Jeff sudden alienation, not her fault, but the instincts and needs of men, she is no need to Yongrenzirao. In this way, their relationship soon appeared a turning point. A few months later, I chaired a seminar on the other, I am grateful to Jeff. He told me, take part in the seminar, Mary learned a lot! Jeff from the mouth, I also delighted to learn that: they have been through the marriages. 

So, the Queen Mary later do, she knows is a secret, one of the men's secrets, and this secret, but the majority of women are unfamiliar. In fact, Jeff eager to escape, the Queen Mary, ignoring all stop, is clearly contrary to the wishes of Jeff. Like Rubber Band, Jeff need to "extend" sufficient distance, to get "rebound" force. After alienated from the process to avoid, Jeff will generate enough momentum to the Queen Mary has become more intimate. However, all along, Mary completely kept in the dark. She can not understand Jeff was good, why the blink of an eye on the attitude of indifference to » She not understand why, just go all out for Jeff to change its attitude, "mending their ways", but no results.