Children having sex, parents how to solve?
In real life, many parents heard that their children has had sex or even pregnancy they will be very angry, the family of change can even comparable to the volcanic eruption. Miss Sun was informed that the daughter of the Grade 11 like pregnancy, but she soon calmed down. Miss Sun did not blame her daughter, but deeply self-blame. She keep calm at home in purpose, she did not feel that they protect the daughter and her daughter able vowed not necessarily any harm. To help relieve pressure on his daughter, Miss Sun on the matter is confidential, even including the father of the child. At the same time she encouraged her daughter to have the courage to face life on the road to overcome the setbacks.
In the meticulous care of the mother and daughter from the pain gradually emerge. Experienced the life of harearly love, a lot of her daughter grew up, she recognized that only in the future on the road be worthy of her mother. daughter strenuously preparing for college entrance examination. A year later, she was admitted to Beijing with outstanding achievements of a prestigious university.
Expert Comments:
early love of children having sex, mostly from sexual ignorance, sexual curiosity caused. On this point the parents have a great responsibility to prevent sexual early love in the first line of defense is parents. Parents should be equal in peacetime, including a timely talk on child sex education, open discussion of issues. So that children understand: Sex is very valuable, light-not the first time. To let children learn to mature and sensible way to control sexuality. At the same time, let the children understand that sex could lead to the consequences of allowing children to know that this will not only affect their own, may also hurt each other.
Zaolian when parents should be how do » Survey shows that: 76 percent of the students parents have not read psychology books, parents generally do not know how to communicate with their children, how to educate their children. How can early love children into the feelings of the world? » -- Panel of Experts Professor Yin Dengan pointed out that parents and children usually pay attention to equality of communication, comprehensive care about the child's growth, good performance of the children in time of good moral character praised in a timely manner prior to puberty to remind the granting, Adolescent sexual physiology and sexual health, sexual and psychological education.
Zaolian in the face of the child should be treated calmly, no matter to what extent the children, mothers must stress the art of conversation, to respect, tolerance and equal manner, and the children have a rational communication.early love treatment of children, Professor Yin proposed four principles: First, not whether, but not the chaos, in particular, can not open the second is adolescent boys and girls are feeling of love, is a normal physiological and psychological development of normal performance, parents should not surprised The third is the lack of akrasia children, parents found their children early love symptoms, it is necessary to remind children not to separate good intentions, too many heterosexual contact; four children there early love is the precursor, the timely transfer to the child's attention.
In the meticulous care of the mother and daughter from the pain gradually emerge. Experienced the life of harearly love, a lot of her daughter grew up, she recognized that only in the future on the road be worthy of her mother. daughter strenuously preparing for college entrance examination. A year later, she was admitted to Beijing with outstanding achievements of a prestigious university.
Expert Comments:
early love of children having sex, mostly from sexual ignorance, sexual curiosity caused. On this point the parents have a great responsibility to prevent sexual early love in the first line of defense is parents. Parents should be equal in peacetime, including a timely talk on child sex education, open discussion of issues. So that children understand: Sex is very valuable, light-not the first time. To let children learn to mature and sensible way to control sexuality. At the same time, let the children understand that sex could lead to the consequences of allowing children to know that this will not only affect their own, may also hurt each other.
Zaolian when parents should be how do » Survey shows that: 76 percent of the students parents have not read psychology books, parents generally do not know how to communicate with their children, how to educate their children. How can early love children into the feelings of the world? » -- Panel of Experts Professor Yin Dengan pointed out that parents and children usually pay attention to equality of communication, comprehensive care about the child's growth, good performance of the children in time of good moral character praised in a timely manner prior to puberty to remind the granting, Adolescent sexual physiology and sexual health, sexual and psychological education.
Zaolian in the face of the child should be treated calmly, no matter to what extent the children, mothers must stress the art of conversation, to respect, tolerance and equal manner, and the children have a rational communication.early love treatment of children, Professor Yin proposed four principles: First, not whether, but not the chaos, in particular, can not open the second is adolescent boys and girls are feeling of love, is a normal physiological and psychological development of normal performance, parents should not surprised The third is the lack of akrasia children, parents found their children early love symptoms, it is necessary to remind children not to separate good intentions, too many heterosexual contact; four children there early love is the precursor, the timely transfer to the child's attention.
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