Middle-aged husband passionate sex "rule" Insomnia

Zhiwei and I grew up in a small town, the first year following the resumption of university entrance examination at the same time we get the provincial towns of the same school, after graduating with a city assigned to work. We therefore also be regarded as the two Qingmeizhuma, Liangxiaowucai. Early marriage, our sex life pretty harmonious, although longer Wei-an Zhiwei strong, but gentle and considerate, I know how to meet, I have to own such a dedicated husband was lucky. In early 2005, from Mr. promoted to Chief Secretary, for us, this is a big happy event, but since his promotion, we are husband and wife and harmonious life of the husband and wife suddenly changed the tone. That is the new arrival, the first weekend in the evening, to celebrate his promotion, I do a few specially Haocai, put on a bottle of Maotai, and he had looked forward to a meal at a dinner, when I Prepared to stop all this time, an emergency telephone call to却把He immediately. Looking at his hastily out of the shadow, I like warm feelings of the basin was ice-cold water. But I understand him, after all, he is one of the long, it is necessary to attach importance to the work. Late at night, he towing exhausted body home, I hesitate to signal he sent, to shirk it responsibility, he said: "The enterprise has a production accidents, must continue to deal with tomorrow." In this way, I have strong Crimping Eros The flame, in disappointment through the long nights without sleep. The next day, the President often makes me feel embarrassed. For a 40 teenage health mature woman, in the 12 weeks caressing her husband's lack of sexual desire can well be imagined. I once suspected him of the outside have to make a new Huan, but I told him many years of understanding and people to speculate and think that this possibility very small. He was repeatedly taken the initiative to love, and get the response tomorrow is not too tired important meetings and work, can not be distracted, my self-esteem had never been hurt, more than once in his heart secretly vow: not on the men's love Can not live a «its Zizhaomoqu, as his cold! Ran aground in this type of sex between us quietly stalemate in the past two years. Autumn 2007, due to long-term, excessive worry about using the brain, suffering from neurasthenia, and sometimes all night Nanmian, lethargy during the day work. I advised him to see a doctor, he laughed over. Day night, I also feel that in the Mihu He also insomnia, so he got up Kaideng comfort, I do not know what he touched the roots of which, he suddenly has to a passion, and I am pleasantly surprised Wencun to meet him. Crazy after a while, but soon You had to sleep. The next day, his spirit with great changes in mood, from time to time to Xiaohe He joked with me, the original life of this rule may also suffer from insomnia ah! With the successful experience in the later period of time, he took as long as insomnia, I will be looking for sex, sometimes even if I slept a little性趣, also had to perform "hypnosis" the obligation, but to him I have no Grievances. As President has been reluctant to seek help from doctors, only occasionally serve points against the drug, more help is sex, a long time, this "sex hypnosis" a non-functional. By nature can not help sleeping, sometimes even, if made love that night also slept well, the next day is exhausted. He also called for the suspension was simply sex, to return to the original plain living. I am at a loss: an extraordinary change in the work, a little nervous breakdown, why he was a middle-aged man has become so volatile Doctors Comments: middle-aged man entered after their sexual function will decline somewhat, iftoo offen, rest properly, there will be sore back, face and eyes Fazhang vague and general fatigue fatigue, and other phenomena. Zhiwei It was precisely because of this phenomenon too worried, fearing that after the promotion impact on daily work and stubbornly suppress the normal marital sex life, this is a negative attitude. In fact, even the middle-aged couples are not excessive Zongyu, every Monday ordered two of the sexual life, the body will not bring any harm, it will not work during the day caused little impact study, as long as proper attention to rest And sports, physical strength and energy will soon return to normal. In response, positive response to the sex life of an orderly, sex life after the break to sleep, the morning the next day to do the best physical exercise such as jogging, and then have a shower, the feeling of fatigue will be greatly reduced. As Zhiwei later insomnia, first of all should actively seek medical treatment, find out the reasons for insomnia, to psychological adjustment, restaurants conditioning with suitable drug treatment. And can not rely on sex to Zhumian through sexual Zhumian can only be a temporary short-term behavior, not repeat too much of the spirit. Such as neurasthenia can not be effectively corrected by simply relying on the fatigue of life support will lose sleep falling into the role. Zhiwei on the situation, he was mainly due to excessive mental work, and physical and sports activities attributed to lack of exercise. Therefore it is necessary to pay attention to the mental work to relax, go home especially at night not to think too much, and the other is more appropriate to relax and engaged in training activities such as walking at night, Chen Qi jogging, walking more than small car, can Ning Xin Yang Shen Help to sleep, but also middle-aged man's sexual function very helpful. In short, the middle-aged people, work, life and sex couples, the law should be orderly, there, must not "Beigongsheying", from one extreme to another extreme.