What are important for the perfect sex ?

Experts in the investigation of women and 26,000 men, repeatedly to find a happy sex life in one of the most important factor, and that is to communicate their views. Only a couple of communication, mutual understanding in order to have a happy sex life. 

     Some couples are lucky, they can easily communicate, but most people do not have that lucky. And the issue of divorce statistics are evidence. A research report pointed out that the seriousness of the problem and his wife account for half of all couples. Another survey, 1 / 4 men and 1 / 3 of women often experience sexual dysfunction. 

     Sexual problems for couples to communicate the views of almost all the difficulties. Half of them said they "rarely" or "never" discussed the issue. The reason is: I beg your pardon, are too ashamed or dispute that may arise. The heart of these couples are very deep fear. 40% of the sexual problems of women said they did not dare to talk about issues Pashang is the husband's feelings. There are many women believe that men's self-esteem and sexuality are closely related, all the views that he may be considered to be his sexual criticism. In our country, because of the feudal concept, or did not dare to refuse to put forward their own issues to discuss her husband and wife, a large number. But in fact be able to ask questions and discuss her sex life and the satisfaction of women, particularly the relationship between husband and wife can really happy. 

     Of course, the bed is not easy to communicate their views. The most difficult thing is to discuss the deterioration often - into a condemnation of a spouse, or complained that criticism, and the two sides would be furious, so that marriage and sexual relations are affected by the devastating effects. To communicate their views to be the result of such a fundamental reason: 

     ① party did not really listen to each other's words; 

     ② no one is willing to talk to the attitude of honesty, sincerity in recognition of their own negligence or inadequate; 

     ③ do not believe that the other party can change. Is to be successful. Whether it is for young couples or for the elderly couple, both sides need to work together to sex, just like two to tango, only the two sides to understand each other, communicate with each other in order to obtain a perfect harmony of love and harmony. Of life in some places by hand or moving hands to the body. Some of the "one-click Lingxi heart" and his wife, "body language" Via enough. The issue of sexual husband and wife in the hope that spouses "understand" that he or she did not mean that the exports accounted for 17% of the people. 

     In short, the problem of sexual couples, no matter by what means to communicate their views to improve the living conditions and to improve the quality of life of the most important.