Happiness,its just simple ！

I like a few words very much: “happy is very simple actually, moreover simpler is happier. “perhaps! Happiness is only like pot green tea, ordinary, also perhaps like a prose, lives by the feeling! In life all, are such happiness. The deep blue sky, rushes sea, gentle wind. Genial positivity. Is filling the world which loves, is annotating happiness ubiquitous.whenever completes pulls one day-long schoolwork, tired cannot gain ground on the school desk, I will smell nearby the table tea to be fragrant, hear a mother's care, perhaps will see nearby the table that one each, will be hanging the crystal clear water-drop fruit. Happiness like this develops in mine heart! Even if in the heart is already utterly exhausted, since because of everything not along, but the heart has depressed. Can desalinate in the dear ones, vanishing. we in very busy, many people said every day that they cannot feel happiness, they said that their life, is only busy with the livelihood. What does not stop is pulls the money and the status, mechanical work! Yes? I want to be they consider only " hurry along " to forget to pull scenery along the way! An advertisement said good " does not need to care about the destination, what cares about is scenery along the way, as well as looks at the scenery the mood! “only then, when your vision, is not forwarding very straightly, but looks all around time, you will discover that anything will be " happy " some people likes fantasizing, thought in the fantasy world will be happy, oneself will want all will realize in the dream. These illusions, we have the necessity, thinks? In red singing star, when has was put behind by the human the helpless, in extravagant rich person, when has is poor the pain, in bright star, when has falls from the sky the dimness! “the fairyland is again beautiful, is the dream finally, treasures at present the beginning for really!” said pulls these many, also is only a few words " happy is very actually simple, moreover simpler is happier. “

Relations between friends

Originally does not need too many languages to be able to express the connotation rich life process, a philosopher said: The life most important is must be succinct. Then I asked that all friends you whether also to need this kind of attitude towards life? I do not understand? Today I leave behind my question in the diary ......How many intimate friends human's life can have? Perhaps? Perhaps has ......Then has is in there, ends of the earth? the friend uses for to betray. I thought that now these words have a truth, but sometimes I am not this meaning ~ I only am thought that you friend is also good, schoolmate ......Sometimes so is why good to you, sometimes actually uses the judgment which one kind questioned to you. Many examples I enumerate one in here: If schoolmate or the friend need your help time him to your time has been usually entirely different than to your manner, he will entangle you always certainly to want to help him with you only then to be willing to give up, but afterward? The unexpected matter has occurred, before and afterward completely was two different people. I thought what these situation everybody has bumps ~ to be worse is not only sometimes also like this, so long as he no longer needs your help, after he has completed his goal, also meets in turn instead nips your one not to be possible, these people have forgotten former days you completely to his benevolence, you to his good, he may to your unfeeling even certainly righteousness ......You said that such person we also thinks the sympathy for them? We also consider for them? Does not need. very many matters we are unable to imagine that between the friend should each other communication, each other concern, build a mind between both the bridge to let each other understanding be more, shares respective joyful and the worry not right? But fact? Why is just the opposite? I do not understand? “the friend” is “shows loving concern”, “the dear ones”, “the friendship” the pronoun actually, but when anything actually has become “the gratitude and grudges” pronoun ......

If you decide to leave me alone

How if you do certainly want to walk I to be able to detain you even if detains you your heart also to float in the distant place as soon as if why you are doomed to go not to turn head I also to alone worried even if cries also to wash the endless heart all day long to worry clear must walk you natural to walk the life to have originally spring also has fall not to turn head you also not to need to look back to lose your me again also by no means not to have a thing in the world

Savors the life

Life like tea. Just poured into as soon as the head road tea, the boiling water steeps, the tea fragrant four overflow, just likes the life first years, just entered this mortal world, the taste is pale, but delicate fragrance; 23 tea just like the life enter the young adults, strives for success enterprising, fills roughly, its taste strong mellow; Tea to several, taste pale and astringent sweet, just likes the old age, the vulgar idea desalinates, return nature.　　 the life like plays chess. Human's life plays chess in the same destiny, is not you operates the destiny, is the destiny manipulates you, defeats the destiny to have the patience, must have the confidence, you must do utmost give yourself to create the opportunity. Perhaps your chess of destiny step by step all loses, you also do not need pessimistically, was insisting walks, even if only remains an artillery, you still had the opportunity to hit its having an unclear voice. life like travel. A life like long travel, in the travel has the level road also to have the tortuous path, you can the tranquil point of view facing each day, the challenge, rigid forward, walks as always toward the destination. When you arrive the terminal attends to actually comes the diameter, only then discovered that the life the journey mixed blessing, has smiles has the tear, even little loses many, but this all constituted your life journey entirety. the life is a book. The life is the book which difficult to write, you are again the rich emotion, also expected with difficulty future ink marks will remain in where. But you do not write not good, therefore you each day are an article, moreover the literature style varies, page of clouds either pale or thick, suddenly yours life surrounding, has cast your life. Intelligent will write the immortal prose in each page, lazy actually smudges the too good youth book, will have achieved nothing. Page of are redundant 365 times, you have then welcomed each one unforgettable course, does not need to demand others' recognition, most importantly writes down the life which not regrets. life available measurement. The ruler in the people heart, the calm ruler is even, heart Ming Zechi. This is measuring the criterion the life path and every word and deeds. Please remember: Measures when the human do not lose excessively strictly, measures when oneself do not be negligent in the width. “heart of responsibility oneself responsibility person, heart of person oneself.”Impartial the ruler, must have the open and aboveboard life.

Do not forget initial goal

Formerly, had a landlord to visit a tribe leader, wanted to approach him to want the block place. The leader said that you walk from here to the west, the round trip walks time makes a mark, so long as you can before the sun sets hurries back, from here to that mark's between place was your. The sun has set, the greedy landlord has not hurried back, because he walks too far, died of exhaustion on the road. In the real life has the similar person, although they are not corrupt, but also cannot walk. has one time, I must hang a picture in the living room, asks the neighbor to help, the picture already held on the wall, is preparing the nail nail. He said: “is not like this good, the best nail two logs, hang up the picture the surface.”I comply with his opinion, lets him help to look for the log, looks saws. Has not sawn 2-3, he said: “is not good, this saw is not quick, must rub.” he the family has a file. Therefore, he throws down saws takes the file. The file brought, before he discovers the use file, must result in gives the file peaceful handle. for the file peaceful handle, he takes up the axe to go to nearby the campus the shrubbery to seek for the young tree. When wants the felling, he discovered that my that lives Man Xiu the axe not to be able to use really, must result in rubs. after the hone looks, he discovered that must sharpen that the old axe, hone fixed good, must manufacture several fixed hones the lumber, for this reason, he arrives extracurricular looks for a carpenter, said that the carpenter family has one ready-made. However, this walks, again has not seen him to come back, certainly, that picture, my one side nail has hung it on the wall. In the afternoon saw again his time, is on the street. He is helping the carpenter to hand over in the store from the hardware toward the outside to lift an unwieldy power saw. in the life has many such people, they thought that must complete this matter, must go to do the preceding matter, must complete the preceding matter, must go to do the front matter. They swim against the stream, return zero, until forgets cleanly that primitive goal. This kind of person looks resembles bustles about, from dawn to dusk a laborious appearance. Actually, they do not know themselves in busy anything. 　

If I can contain all

The life is alive, has too much bitterly with the helpless, if a person must 11 explain in detail them engraves on mind, this lives has no intention. Perhaps the life is in itself not a joyful matter, has too many moved and the pain, the human often also on only then after suffering the defeat and the setback can see own shortcoming and the insufficiency. Between the human and the human does not have anything actually, what but needs is one kind of heart and the heart blends - - the understanding and containing. I ask myself frequently, I can understand the sea greatly, the prairie inexhaustible? I can contain the time to have the life trivial matters which has a headache in periphery? may say that each successful people gave up for the understanding many, has endured patiently for containing many, however after this understanding, containing, is the successful joy, is vision which and praise oral traditions the people admire.

Each leaf is dissimilar

Each leaf dissimilar Deng Kang Yan in same sunlight soil, a tree leaf not piece identical; The different countenance and moves toward the leaf, shakes off a tree onion long. The nature did not have the language to say like this. a overseas education visiting delegation is attracted by a China's villages and towns elementary school, they got used to seeing along the way the elementary student uniform movement and the expression, attends class in this elementary school the time noise to be lively surprisedly. Principal replies: Some gardening teacher once warned me: In childhood natural appeal cannot cut horizontally. a renowned clothing teacher comes on stage receives time the big prize said: I should many years ago on the station in here,--If my father were not compelling the specialty which in the past I studied do not like, if the parent unit did not interfere my extra-curricular creation, if in the society nobody gave a speech to my strange clothing many spot tolerant ...... . After a silence, under the stage bursts into thunderous applause. we are not deficient the talented person who breaks ground wants, was only many to person's disposition, the hobby as well as privacy carrying a heavy load. the leaf is not machine's product, is unable the specification production, cannot photocopy the copy, falls with difficulty wooden also fresh; It is the life, transmits the sun, the suction soil, to pour out the green. The individuality is a style, each only leaf, demonstration survival point and beautiful.therefore -- the respect leaf respects the big tree, respects others respects itself, the respect individuality respects the life.

Three matters life

Human's life, has three matters not to be able to wait: first is “poor” poor cannot wait, because one, but the time has been long, you will be familiar with poorly, is not only unable to break through at the appointed time, will write off own dream, but mediocre ...... second will be for a lifetime “vainly hoped for that” the dream cannot wait, because of the life different stage, will have different informed and experienced and the idea, will consider a question: If you 20 year-old time dream, at 60 year-old time only then can realize, what situation can that be? the for example you 20 year-old time dream is the hope can buy a Ferrari's race car, then to Germany's non-regulating road hurricane. You have worked diligently, to 60 years old, could afford the race car finally with great difficulty, when must realize is young the dream, perhaps is also has more desire than energy ...... third is “the family member” the family member cannot wait, we are also perhaps young, in the future will have many time to be possible to let us try to find out, fight, but family member? They also have the time to wait for us to succeed? Also has the time to wait for us to make money, to let their auspicious day, lets them take us as the honor? tree desiring calm but wind restless, the sub-desire raises kisses does not need ......This is many person's pains, is also many person's regrets for a lifetime. person's on half a lifetime: Or hesitates; person's under half a lifetime: Or regretted; lives in immediately, grasps opportunity each time, because the opportunity is fleeting, found the outlet for own life!

Life law

occupies the second position ratio to occupy the first position to have the security sense. * supports others to be possible to obtain the security sense. when
● you surpass others are little, others will envy you; When you surpass others one big section, others will envy you. if
● you like very having the possibility lively are because your soul is lonely; If you like lonely, very has the possibility is because of yours thought enrichment.
● some people, although the shortcoming is not obvious, might also not be able to find the prominent merit; Although some people the shortcoming is obvious, but the merit is also very prominent. Comparatively, the people often appreciate the latter.
● patted the human who you flattered to be many, was not others loves the racket, but was you likes by the person racket.
● by others envy, was explained that you are remarkable; Envies others, explained that you are incompetent. * you do to matter's time, will not be mentioned frequently by the people; When you make the wrong thing time, will not be forgotten frequently by the people. when
● drinks, wants to flatter you the human and wants to look you make a fool of oneself the human has asked you to drain the cup.

If

This is the Nobel Literature Prize augurs good luck Bo Linxie to give him a 12 year-old son's poem: if when the people are at a loss, you can calm calm, but is not repeats ideas; if when suspects by the human the suspicion, you can self-confident as usual and do not go in vain to add the debate; if you have the dream, can also not lose; If you have the state of mind, as for does not overstate; if during the success can not unconventionally in the color, but after the disaster also dares to chew the bitter fruit; if saw own pursue are disillusioned is fragmentary rubbles happily, also did not say gives up; if your pain practical training, already were makes a name for oneself, as soon as you take risked for the fresh target to wrestle as before, even if the academic honor became destroyed; if you with the countryman talk, but invariable courteous condition, with the nobilities takes a walk, but does not reveal flatters the face; if other people's love could not control you; If you are a companion with anybody can be remarkably independent; if the confused harassment could not vacillate your will, you could wait for to be calm, answered again when - - - , your training like world will be so great, but you, were a genuine man, my son!

Golf's trough

When the golf movement just emerged, has a strange phenomenon, the nearly all golf players like with the old ball, has the scratch ball extraordinarily. original, has the scratch ball to have more outstanding flying ability compared to the smooth new ball. Therefore, according to the aerodynamics principle, the scientist designed the surface to have the trough golf. These troughs, let golf's stability and are away from have the superiority compared to the smooth ball. Henceforth, has the trough golf to become competition's unification to use the ball. If compares with golf's trough the life the scar, that the defeat, rough and setback these bring the scar to the human the thing, is not fearful. Perhaps because, some scars, will let us raise the healthy psychology, will thus be advantageous in achieves the life lofty goal.