Poor is not reason

Last year, I have bumped into pair of mother and child in the Tiananmen Square, the son over 40 years old, pulls a tricycle, the mother is sitting in the vehicle. Their attire very earth, travel-worn, is incompatible with environment all around. I ask the man: “do you come from where?”The man speaks the sound to be very light, is actually bringing Man Man be proud of: “Shandong. I ride the tricycle to come! The mother said that for a lifetime the strongest wish has a look at Chairman Mao has lived the place, but in the family is too poor. Her 86 years old, did not come out, to fear that again shortly in the future will not have the opportunity, as soon as I clenched teeth mount the vehicle to come, has ridden entire 7 days.” I am startled, asked: “then which you do rest? What also eats?” “in my mother sleeping-car, I spread the mattress to rest nearby the vehicle, snoring a while comes the spirit. When near coming out, the wife has fried 80 cakes, but can also eat.” Ms. a face is smiling satisfiedly, the one who sits as if is luxurious Lincoln. my eye is somewhat fuzzy. We often in excuse pouch shy, cannot be filial to the utmost for the parents. Saw this to the mother and child, I only then discovered: Poor never is the reason.

Simple is one method

The olive tree ridiculed that the fig tree said: “your leaf to winter when fell up, the bare branch was really ugly, which looked like me to be all year long Paris green, attractive incomparable.”Soon, a heavy snow arrived, on the Chinese olive tree trunk is the Paris green leaf, the snow piles up in above, because finally the weight has broken by pressing too greatly the branch, the olive tree attractive has also encountered the destruction. But fig tree, because the leaf already fell, the whole body is simple, the snow passes through the branch to fall on ground, finally the fig tree is safe and sound. semblance's unattractiveness not necessarily adapts to the circumstances, sometimes is one kind of burden, will often bring troublesome or the disaster for the survival. On the contrary, average can derive exactly but actually frequently by idleness. Therefore, was inferior that lays down your semblance vanity unattractiveness, or is not the solid status and the status, realized steadfastly the real simple life, believed like this you will obtain more pleasure.

The thanksgiver is rich

Feels grateful is one kind gets along with people the philosophy, is in the life greatly intelligent. The life is alive, impossible problem-free, all sorts of defeats, the helpless need us facing, to process broad-mindedly bravely. When the setback, is defeated temporary, complains the life constantly, henceforth becomes is depressed, is dispirited, filled with to the life feels grateful, tumbles crawled again? British writer Thackeray said: “the life is a mirror, you smile, it also smiles; You cry, it also cries.” feels grateful is one kind of psychological comfort not purely, is also not to the reality escape, is not the Arab League Q spiritual victory. Feels grateful, is way which one kind sings to live, it from the love with hoped to the life. did not understand feels grateful human, even if the family property great wealth, he were still a poor person; Understood that feels grateful and knows graciousness to repay a debt of gratitude, is the world richest person.

Are time happily many have nothing to do with the rich and poor

Poor and rich is relative, a foreign enterprises white-collar, monthly salary 3000 Yuan, thinks tightly. But retired uncle, although each month only takes more than 1000 Yuan retirement pensions, actually satisfies to the life very much. an income higher person more thought that he is the poor person, this is not incredible. The income high often disbursed high, on the contrary is also unable to make ends meet; The income high person judgment is also frequently high, always thought that the sale price has not lifted suffices, but may also be higher, certainly he wants to call poorly. The investigation showed that the most month of income in 1000 Yuan following people thought their life already achieved well-off, but the partial monthly salaries surpass 3000 Yuan even 5000 Yuan people actually to think that own life and the well-off standard also have the very great distance. regarding these extraordinary destitute people, the discussion “why you are the poor person” does not have the big significance, because they change the present situation incapable, they to poor rich familiar are come from the limited experience of life, is according to having to the daily necessity determines. But in the urban poor person, or the wealthy area's poor person, puzzles them is not an eat three meals a day, but develops the question. the modern people will not judge a person's value completely by the material standard, the rich person will be by no means joyful, the poor person will be very painful. Time life happiness are many with poor has nothing to do with richly.

tolerant is the luck

An old woman in her golden wedding anniversary commemoration day that day, has said her to the guest maintains the happily married the secret. She said: “marries from me that day, I prepare to list husband's 10 shortcomings, I to own pledge, when he has violated in these 10 mistake's any item, I am willing to forgive him.”Some people ask her, what are 10 shortcomings? She replied: “to be honest, for 50 years, I always have not come out these 10 shortcoming specifically row, when my husband makes the mistake settles, lets I am mad straight stamp one's foot, I immediately remind myself: Calculated that his luck is good, what he violates is I may forgive one of 10 mistakes.”This old woman maintains the happily married the secret is not other, is tolerant. Tolerant is a luck, this reviews in succession the rich woman, similarly makes one admire.

Let the youth expend

In many people looked that the woman spends on her body is really not worth. generally speaking can say these words the human mostly is divides several kinds: First, the money appearance has not envied others' person; Second, does not know the appearance human; Third, lazy woman each women have themselves to be possible actually person's one side, perhaps is hidden is forgotten perhaps. dresses up oneself that is an art, what in different requirements of environment is different decoration, the different stature needs the different fluctuation. Perhaps a hairstyle or a shoe's matching not, when has the possibility to cause the procedure the confusion, therefore the woman must certainly learn this art. What inside but in such decorates needs to spend is the time and the money. has the different personal status in the different level's woman, sometimes does not need to be noble, to be elegant, but most minimum comfortable, natural that is essential, you give the person's first impression in any situation is direct-viewing, looked that your semblance can know you 60-70% connotations, you will discover you the situation which will dress up you to contact will become with you graceful, if you the first impression are deleted in others eye by others that not to need downward to turn. the youth is woman's capital, this is must pay certain price, why did God give you to make girl's opportunity you not for oneself, but diligently? Do not wait till old has only then regretted me also young, but why doesn't the result have others to be so splendid. Others are willing with the time which is in a daze to dress up itself, is willing to give vent to itself with not the happy mood. (unhappy time trades a hairstyle for oneself ......., satisfies itself) everybody to be able to discover itself slowly, no matter in human communication in appreciation personal status in different disparity.

Love, perhaps it's so simple

Love, perhaps not that simple, will like letting the human be injured, will let the human be mentally and physically exhausted is utterly exhausted, likes letting some matter falling again and again with no reason at all. This time quarrel always ended in the next time promise, when that never could be next time next time has become this time, but could this time scar, become each other's mind shadow and the burden, did not know, also did not talk clearly, anyone do not want to say clarity.when your feeling, when your mood, ignorant is overruled by one kind of guess, leaves you are not angry, is not depressed, but is injured, the wound is very deep. This kind of wound, lets you compared to all pains remember with eternal gratitude, when explains and argued into one kind of unnecessary, others' wound may an alone person silently cure, your heartache, did some who know? How do you cure? Cures with what? waited for, when the entanglement lets the life is only left over the only waiting, you can only the selective wait, with the life, with the silence. Perhaps the waiting is happiest, it may bring many kind of choices to the human, known, unknown, you may choose your choice according to matter's development, chooses own mood. The general meeting has such one kind of wound, lets you not want to live in the passive shadow, your helpless, your unfeeling, perhaps, some people will not understand. liked loving, perhaps, the only love was insufficient, the human will seek many in satisfying is dissatisfied. When that kind does not satisfy oneself was felt that to satisfies also has such section of distances, then starts to suspect that suspected whether oneself does leave the successful such remoteness. Looks like you to want the morning calisthenics, you not in the home in-situ steps, even if will exercise the degree will be the same level, the human will always like going around, will then return in-situ to circle again.

The manner decides all

Has a child, was not careful bumps into the table to cry. After China's mother sees, the first movement is puts out a hand to hit the table, then roars the child: “clever! Does not cry!”. But Japan's mother is not this, she will request the child to circle the table to walk, will then inspire him: “the reason that the human will run upon the table, generally will have three kind of situations. First, you run too quickly, cannot stop the foot; Second, does not pay attention looks at the road; Third, you are thinking other matter at heart. Which kind of situation were you a moment ago belong to?” the table is dies, it will not hit the human on own initiative, therefore the human will run upon the table, will be person's mistake, but will not be table's mistake. China's mother puts out a hand to hit the table, was equal to that in the raise child, that is table's mistake, is not your mistake, grows the child under such education, meets the matter first is the shift responsibility, seeks for the reason which by any means possible for oneself gets free, but with all one's heart selects others' problem. Japanese mother's procedure, then wants in the raise child bravely to undertake own responsibility, but do not go to accusation others constantly. The child who grows under such education, everything always first examines own insufficiency. does actually, who very little have the matter to be able very thorough to distinguish clearly is wrong to who, often is everybody has the mistake, what is different is the mistake is wrong few. If each party concerneds can undertake own that responsibility, examines own insufficiency earnestly, what matter has that also had not to be able to solve? between the department and the department is also this, when others point out the insufficiency to us, first is not refutes, to argue, but first makes the self-criticism, is truly wrong, changes immediately, does not have wrong truly, also makes a caution, with the aim of even more taking seriously. the manner decides all. The similar matter, the manner is different, the result is also different.

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The faith is a seed

One year, a British exploring party enters Sahara's some area, climbs mountains and crosses rivers in the boundless vast desert. Under the sunlight, everywhere dances in the air the sandstorm fries the red iron sand to be ordinary likely, is swatting expeditionist's face. Resembles thirstily roasts, burning with impatience---Everybody's water did not have. By now, exploration party chief put out a canteen, said: “here also has pot water, but before the traversing desert, nobody can drink.” pot water, has become the traversing desert source of faith, has become the reposing goal which seeks livehood. The canteen transmits in the member hand, that heavy feeling causes on the face which the members border on despair, also reveals the firm look. Finally, the exploring party went out the desert tenaciously, has worked loose hand of the god of death. Everybody happy sobs extremely, with the hand which shivers twists off that pot to support their water of spirit---Flows slowly, is actually Man Man pot sand! under the hot hot sun, in the boundless desert, has rescued them truly, also where is that pot sand? Their rigid faith, was similar to already a seed, takes root in their moral nature to germinate, got them to go out " the hopeless situation finally ". 　　 In fact, life never true hopeless situation. Regardless of suffers how many to be difficult, regardless of experiences how many misery, so long as in a person's heart also harbors a grain of faith the seed, then one day, he can go out the difficult position, lets the life blossom and bear fruit. the life is this, so long as seed also, hope.

Life clock

Friend's father is critically ill, the friend from overseas makes the phone call to me, lets me help him. I know his meaning, even if by the quickest speed, he also can only four hours later hurries back, but his father, was already impossible very to cross again for four hours. When rushes to the hospital, saw that friend's father whole body inserts the full pipe, is breathing rapidly. Before the bed, encircled has filled the sad family member. At that time friend's father manic restless, both eyes are shutting tightly, both hands grasp carelessly. I hear him to be called friend's name unclearly. Each people in look at me, in the vision is filling, but anticipation. I walk, works on his hand gently, I said that was I, I comes back. Friend's father is peaceful immediately down, the facial expression also becomes serene. But after a while, he once again becomes merely manic, he loosens my hand, continues to grasp carelessly. I knew that I could not deceive him. Nobody understands own compared to him son. Therefore I tell him, his son now also in overseas, but four hours later, definitely may hurry back. I said to friend's father that I guaranteed. I see his family members panic-stricken vision. But friend's father once again is actually peaceful down, then his head, is being diligently crooked to a direction, a hand recommends anxiously. I note, on that direction's wall, has hung a clock. I said to friend's father that the present is spot ten points. Five spots ten time sharing, your son will catch up with. Friend's father lays down his hand, I saw he long has extended the one breath, although his both eyes shut tightly, but I may feel as if he anticipated vision.

Flowered and leaf's love

Snow everywhere dances in the air, the mountain range which is continuous is extending in the snow world to the distant place. All did not have probably terminus, strikes the eye is a color. “the wind, the snow has been too big.”Plum sound weak, looks at the rumor. the wind looks that the petite plum, the ache is at heart incomparable, plum's respite clear may hear, he knew Mei Lei, might, in this heavy snow fluttered on the mountain where had the place which might rest? “the plum, you have been tired, I hug you to walk.”The wind lays down the plum the hand, does not allow her to speak, all of a sudden hugs her. “lays down me to be good? You were also tired. Lays down me.” “I am not tired, we must pass through this mountain as soon as possible. Plum.” the plum's tear silent falls down, the wind bosom is warm, but also has that and jumps equally the violent heart, has the wind man's breath to let her dizziness. the big wind embraces the petite plum to proceed, although in flying snow world, but plum's delicate fragrance still sneaked in his nose to sneak in him at heart.