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Wednesday, November 5, 2008

It's happy to love

It's a nice day today,suddenly I find I will think anout many things and have smart thoughts in this day,maybe it make me clear anylyse myself and the future.I don't know how to love in the past,I think we should be together everyday and at fact I was willing to do like that,at that moment I love him ,but sometimes I think I was losing,now I love him much more than ever,and more happy more than ever too,because I find when I pay attention to us I can seek myself,I still care for his life,even I will think any way to solve his problem,that makes me happy and intersted in my life,I am aware that it's love ,real love,free and easy love.
At fact,love is very simple thing,sometimes we need to make some concession,and don't ask too much each other,because lover is not the God,maybe we always hope the love is the same with the TV played,but is't not possible,lover should be loved,not be asked.we are all equal to each other,and love to each other equally.

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Saturday, October 11, 2008

The support of love

I know my boyfriend have been two years.during the period I tried my best to make him happy and confidence,which let me have a happy and intersting time,I changed him not because he is not perfect,in contract,he is very beautifull and great man,he make me feel I was so important for him and the world,I hope oneday the world can be in peace ,no war,no fake,no bad.Love will be suported by our families,and b=never losing for having no basis of the mertarial.

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Wednesday, October 1, 2008

Teenage abortion harm your body

Once pregnant adolescent girls, we must do so as soon as possible abortion. If more than 3 months of pregnancy, induced abortion is difficult, dangerous, the need to wait until after 4 months of pregnancy induced labor. The greater the month of pregnancy, the greater the impact of the body. By contrast, abortion induced labor than on the body small. However, this does not mean that adolescent girls will be able to do so with impunity abortion. Because there is always surgery infection, bleeding, uterine perforation, and so there is the possibility of complications. In addition, a small number of abortion may occur after the menstrual disorders, uterine cavity adhesion and intermediaries such as adverse effects on future fertility may be affected. Therefore, adolescent girls do to avoid abortion, the fundamental problem is there are not too early sex life. Even more frightening is that abortion can lead to permanent infertility. In particular, has implemented a number of induced abortion were more likely. Due to repeated indomitably curettage clamp, so that the uterine wall thinning, indomitable less and less. After months resulted in little or amenorrhea. Fertilized egg implantation without a good "soil", so that it can not develop into embryos, and thus life-long infertility. The doctor said that if the purposes of scientific abortion, the risk is high. As the pregnant woman's clandestine abortions are carried out, and some even with inadequate facilities, poor disinfection, poor medical conditions; or do not meet many of the use of science, the danger of major raw means, such as the use of abdominal Honshu bandage , So a strong jump movement, or a myriad of in-kind clamp scraping the uterus, or a balloon into the uterus, and then encourage, strongly encourage the uterus to contract, oral or some of the so-called "abortion" drug, and so on a variety of means in an attempt to Will be forced to play down the fetus. These practices often resulted in easy-to-genital inflammation, uterus and other internal organs injury, or bleeding, and even life-threatening.

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Tuesday, September 30, 2008

Young people should have the ethics of sex

ity is about: 

     (A) have a sense of moral, you can control the right to show the physical instinct of the request, so that it does not cause disturbance to others and adverse effects on society. 

     A small number of young people in the study period, as a result do not have the minimum of moral values, the show's sex and love between the sexes can not be good control, greed for a time and a strong focus on the impulse to pleasure, excitement and satisfaction of a short period of time, Chang senses the speed and physical enjoyment, and to make  regrettable. With the concept of sexual morality, you can use the power of rational control and suppress the emotional impulse, to avoid doing anything irrational sexual behavior. Others do not form a sexual harassment and injury, such as the hand of masturbation, the community does not cause bad effects of sex, is defensible. 

     (B) have a sense of moral, can make their love and family after the composition of a healthy direction. 

     The sexual activities of the psychological, moral values of the formation can be formed under the supervision of the moral spirit of the factors that control binding effect. He showed sustained, continuous accumulation of both emotional intimacy and communication, the aesthetic point of view, the moral point of view of the blend with each other. Students have a sense of moral, you can fall in love in the process of moral standards in order to restrain himself, and on the other side can have a good impression, enabling both sides to promote feelings of the establishment of ethical principles in basis, in order to obtain a solid, long-term combination of Guarantee. 

     (C) have sexual morality, sexual behavior can develop a more complete system to achieve a better level of sublimation. 

     Sex itself is a considerable degree of biological instincts and impulses, under certain circumstances, the role of sex hormones may play a strong role in influencing people's spiritual and psychological nerve activity. At this time, the community, the day after tomorrow is an important moral role. Human beings have the moral values of human sexual behavior can become more sophisticated, better reach the realm of sublimation, that is, with the social, moral and rational to control the forces that control the biological, instinctive, emotional strength. 

     Only young people with good sexual morality in order to correctly treat a variety of sexual acts and to ensure their physical, psychological and social aspects can grow up healthily and correctly handle and deal with love, marriage, later to the establishment of a happy family.

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10 advice for the protection of girls

So that children understand what sexual assault and sexual abuse how to do, so that children understand that their bodies no one has the right touch or harm, should be subject to violations of trust in adults and the police for help. 

Children go out to be understanding of the environment, as far as possible in a safe walking route to avoid the remote and unfamiliar place. 

Girls night out, they should go hand in hand. Clothing must not be too exposed, do not dress up too, must guard against frivolous publicity. In particular young girls to go out, parents must transport. 

Girls should pay attention to go around the movement, do not talk to each other and strangers, if people bite shoot or put up a struggle as soon as possible to the public place with numerous people close to the place, if necessary call. 

Girls go out at any time with the parents, without the permission of parents, not other people in the house overnight. 

Should be avoided and the man alone at home or quiet, closed environment to meet, especially to the men to go home. 

Not just out to enjoy a stranger's drink or food, have to guard against narcotic drugs; men refused to provide pornographic film and video picture books, its attempts to prevent misconduct. 

, Who was at home, close attention and refused to strangers inside. Claimed to be of service for maintenance personnel, and inform parents, and so he came back again. 

Go to bed at night alone at home, if they feel there is room noise, he noticed that a stranger entered the room, do not do anything, let alone drilling has been covered in the first nest, should be decisive turn on the lights scream for help. 

Have been sexually abused, as soon as possible to tell parents or police, must not shy, timid delay the loss of evidence, so that the suspect at large.

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Nine steps for you to get a girl on the net

real one another, it became natural to meet the main task. 

     6. Would like to think. When the two sides reluctant to part in the wave farewell to return to their own life, remember every detail of the meeting, the aftertaste that excitement dripping earned, and will inevitably continue to miss each other. 

     7. Re-embracing. When disaster miss, to meet again is the common goal of both As a result, there will be second, third or even more ..... 

     8. Indifferent. Recognizing a long time, the words also said that to do have done, the better it less and less a topic. As a result, the feelings are gradually cooling, occasionally encountered on the Internet is also playing a chat or say hello 35 minutes, relations gradually become indifferent. 

     9. Xiang Wang. With the passage of time and have a mutual, out of curiosity and a sense of freshness has not had, plus a long time, his own shortcomings will be exposed to each other, the feelings of becoming indifferent until the forgotten each other. N perhaps years later, still occasionally think of each other, but only "occasionally". 

     From the first acquaintance, at the end of the Xiang Wang, a few years is a long time, while a few short hours, perhaps in the middle of individual steps will be omitted, such as the ONS and the only known each other for embracing a two-step, in fact, ONS can be understood as the most Simple courtship. Networks have known each other for the final of the Hall of marriage, but do not forget to do so under the pretext of Love has a lot of swindlers, so there is the risk of courtship, the investment should be considered carefully.

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Monday, September 29, 2008

Why the boys' breast increased?

As the man in a small way in the body of estrogen, breast and estrogen on breast tissue are very sensitive, and the level of sex hormones from the body disorder occurs when there will be such a phenomenon, such as adolescent boys and men over the age of 50 are common male breast of women Of. Of adolescent boys, it is called idiopathic male breast hyperplane, which may be related to growth hormone, estrogen, and adrenal cortex hormones related to the stimulation of the breast. At this time of estrogen in the body may be relatively high, until the latter part of development often subside on their own without treatment. 


The clinical performance of the multi-bilateral, symmetrical or asymmetrical; rare unilateral; its size, and sometimes there are nodules. No general discomfort, but sometimes can be accompanied by pain, tenderness or pain. 


In addition to the physiological proliferation, proliferation of dual rational sick, such as the Department of liver disease, testicular dysfunction, adrenal disease, thyroid disease, cancer, such as paraplegia associated with the symptoms. Therefore, if there are doubts about the possibility that these could be as early as possible for medical treatment, so as not to aggravate the patent's condition.

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Virgin may also be pregnant,take care!

Why do pregnant sperm in vitro row? To know that a man's sperm discharged two 300,000,000 sperm. Sperm Injection 50 cm far, the sperm activity 1 hour to run 65 kilometers. Vaginal sperm in the vicinity of 1.5 to 3 minutes into the uterine cavity and fallopian tubes up to 30 minutes. In vitro sperm can live up to 24-48 hours. 


From physiology, reproductive function adolescent girls is the most productive period, as long as ovulation, pregnancy rate is the highest; sexual excitement, can flow to the vagina secretion in vitro and mixed semen, sperm swim down the mixture into the vagina, cervix into the uterus , Then just come back from the oviduct of the egg, it will become pregnant, and ejaculation of semen in vitro residues such as the female private parts, did not immediately wash, temperature and humidity environment sperm survival is also likely to become pregnant easily.

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How to tall your adolescent breast

How tall your breasts 

(1) pay attention to posture. Usually walk to the rise of chest, buttocks tight crosstraining, freeclimber; sitting chest to sit, do not pack Hanxiong back; get back to sleep or not to intimidate any halo prone position. 

Have a chest full of dreams of most women, but the reality often did not, then, breast has become a hot topic ... ... methods of breast camp movement undue influence Meixiong 

(2) to avoid injury. In sports or work, should pay attention to the protection of the breast to avoid impact injury or crush injury. 

(3) doing aerobics in the chest. Mainly to strengthen the muscles in the chest exercise, such as more appropriate to do push-ups or chest movement, aerobics, such as chest. q Aerobics version of the chest and back 

Mastered the correct way to breathe not only allow you to show off their capabilities ktv, but you can exercise a flat stomach, chest full of singing ... ... thin breast Yi Bazhua 

(4) local massage. Sooner or later insist duly breast massage to promote nerve reflex, to improve the secretion of pituitary. 

(5) to appropriate nutrition. Adolescent women can not be one-sided pursuit of curves and the United States blindly go on a diet, the partial eclipse, the amount of protein intake of food, would increase the amount of fat in the chest, to maintain full breasts.

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The characteristics of a mental health girl

1) must be of normal intelligence and be able to give full play to their wisdom and talent. Because the normal level of intellectual life, study, work, work of the most basic psychological conditions. Girls are no exception. 2) the majority of people with mental consistent and in line with requirements psychological age. Because human life, of different ages, have a corresponding psychological characteristics. For girls, innocent and lively, energetic, studious, incentives and full of fantasy is in line with their psychological characteristics of the age requirement. 3) must have a complete personality. To establish a correct outlook on life. Willing to have a unified, coordinated thinking and behavior, magnanimous mind, as good as its word, emotional stability, strong-minded and decisive action of consciousness. 4) the reality of a better adaptability. And social environment can be coordinated at all times aware of their own national and social responsibility, and in accordance with the requirements of national and community efforts to master knowledge and skills in order to promote social progress. 5) with a normal human relationships. Correctly, and actively with different relationships to different psychological reactions. With people, not anti-British do not; not only good at understanding other people, other people can be understood and accepted by others in the group have their own friends. 6) for their proper understanding and evaluation. We must look at its own advantages and strengths, but also see their own weaknesses and shortcomings, is the only way to happily accept themselves and take their own ability and behavior.

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